A Ritual and its Music

Taking a look at where we have traveled in our class about the diversity of music among different cultures and pairing that with what we know about music in our own experiences, we can form a clear yet complex understanding between music and rituals/celebrations. The first experience that always comes to mind when talking about music's relevance in rituals is when my grandfather passed away when I was 13. 

Around this time (circa 2013-2014), I had recently stopped playing the piano. I had taken on piano lessons at the age of 6 because of my grandfather's love for music. When he passed away, it took us not long after to prepare for his funeral, which included songs that meant the most to him during his passing time. 

A few of those songs were completely lyricless, only being played out on the piano. I never before could have imagined why on earth it was so important to him for me to learn piano. But, in those few hours, I knew the reason. He wanted me to play him out into his next adventure.  He chose me to teach and grow musically so I could use music to heal from the place he left in my heart. He let me use music to put my anguish and sadness. It gave me the gift of an outlet for anything I needed it to be. He also left it as a gift to the rest of my family. Now, every time I get up to play the piano or walk by the 10-year-old piano in my foyer, we can think of him and his love. 

I think in all cultures, music holds relevance in healing. That is why sad songs are songs to cry to, and music is relevant in situations like funerals. It is a way to connect with those no longer around while being able to heal from their absence. Not only that, but it brings people together. Whether that be for a celebration like a birthday or the passing of someone, the music is a way for everyone to sit in their silence,  but do it together. Music can sometimes mean more than words and can create a beautiful interpretation of the overall message of an event. What my grandpa did for me with music, I want to continue giving to future generations because music is a way of love, happiness, and togetherness.

And to put a face to the man, myth, and legend, here is a painting of my grandfather with my brothers and my children, whom he didn't get to meet.